Masturbation

Masturbation

Masturbation is a sexual activity in which a person tries to achieve sexual pleasure alone. Once this addiction takes hold, it becomes very difficult to quit. Although it provides temporary pleasure, its harmful effects are long-lasting. Due to the easy access to obscene videos or pornographic websites, the rate of masturbation among young men and women is increasing day by day, which is very disappointing.

The serious harm that can be caused by masturbation:

Although people masturbate in the hope of happiness, it is not real happiness. Because the best way to achieve true sexual pleasure is the sexual union of husband and wife. Those who abandon the right path and seek sexual pleasure in the wrong way harm themselves. Excessive masturbation eventually disrupts sexual life. Masturbation can even lead to the paralysis of sexual organs. Below are the damages that can occur due to excessive masturbation:

  1. Premature ejaculation.
  2. Semen becomes thin and uncontrollable.
  3. Some may suffer from seminal weakness or wetting clothes with slight arousal.
  4. Memory power decreases.
  5. Facial beauty fades, and signs of aging appear.
  1. Vision begins to weaken.
  2. Heart rate increases, and one gets easily fatigued.
  3. Concentration on work becomes difficult.
  4. Complications from urinary tract infections and frequent urination.
  5. The penis becomes weak and lifeless.

Excessive means becoming like an addiction. The amount of physical and mental weakness caused by excessive masturbation is such that many cannot consume enough nutritious food to compensate for it. If this continues for a long time, serious problems arise. Sexual power diminishes to the point of almost nothing.

Masturbation is not only a major sin but also a destroyer of youth. Therefore, protect yourself from this bad habit.

What does Shariah say about masturbation:

Islam is a complete and practical way of life that is deeply natural. This religion provides clear solutions to every problem in human life. Accordingly, Allah the Almighty has determined a way for people to fulfill their biological desires. In the Holy Qur’an, it is stated:
“And those who guard their private parts, except with their wives or those their right hands possess – for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, they are the transgressors.”
– Surah Al-Mu’minun: 5-7

However, not everyone may find these solutions acceptable. Those with weak faith or no faith will not be able to follow all of Allah’s commands. But Allah’s rulings will not change for anyone. If someone seeks sexual pleasure outside Allah’s instructions, they are guilty.

Masturbation is an act that means defiling oneself. It is a heinous and sinful act. Masturbation is such a secret sin that people do it stealthily, like a thief, and feel ashamed to disclose it. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “Righteousness is good character, and sin is that which creates doubt in your heart and which you do not like others to know about.”
– Muslim, Mishkat

Surely, no one would prefer to masturbate publicly. From this hadith, it is understood that masturbation is not a virtuous act. Regarding those who indulge in secret sins, Allah the Almighty says:
“That Day, We will seal their mouths, and their hands will speak to Us, and their feet will testify about what they used to earn.”
– Surah Yaseen, Ayah 65

Sexual desire is like hunger. Just as food is needed when one is hungry, men and women develop sexual desires when they reach a certain age. When they cannot fulfill this desire in a lawful way, they choose the path of sin. Therefore, making marriage easier in our society is essential so that young men and women can avoid sins like masturbation.

Ways to Stay Away from Masturbation and Pornography:

The advancements in technology are blessings and signs of Allah’s supremacy. Although these inventions are intended for the welfare of humanity, their misuse has led people into various sins and crimes, including indecency. This has especially driven adolescents into numerous immoral acts.

With the easy availability of mobile phones and the internet, young men and women can now easily access obscene sites. As a result, they are becoming addicted to watching pornography and getting involved in heinous crimes like masturbation. Excessive masturbation leads to severely disrupted sexual lives.

Facing physical and mental harm, overcoming this addiction as quickly as possible would be a wise move. Below are some methods mentioned for freedom from this terrible sin—

  1. Delete all obscene videos from mobile and computer, and block obscene sites.
  2. Get married as soon as possible, as there is no better way to stop masturbation than this.
  3. In an excited state, get out of bed and take a walk outside.
  4. Do not sleep lying on your stomach or naked.
  5. Perform regular prayers.
  6. Stay away from various bad thoughts and ideas, and protect your gaze as much as possible.
  7. Choose religious-minded friends.
  8. Build the habit of praying Tahajjud and asking for forgiveness, as these bad deeds are often committed late at night.
  9. Avoid touching the private parts as much as possible.
  10. While sleeping, engage in zikr or turn on Quran recitation on the mobile or think about religious matters and then fall asleep.
  11. Keep yourself busy with some work. If there is no work, you can spend time reading Islamic books.
  12. Remember that due to masturbation, sexual weakness may occur, and your wife may get involved in an extramarital affair.
  13. Keep in mind that masturbation can cause you to be deprived of fatherhood.
  14. Occasionally develop the habit of fasting.
  15. Fear Allah; remember that masturbation can lead to hell. Keep this in your mind.

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